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Ferrari Press Agency Ref 7779 Jolie 1 20/02/2017 See Ferrari text Picture MUST credit : BBC An emotional Angeline Jolie has spoken publicly for the first time in public about the 'difficult' breakup of her marriage to Brad Pitt.She was in Cambodia promoting her new film set in the country when she appeared to tear up when asked about her personal life during an interview with BBC reporter Yalda Hakim.. She said:” I don’t want to say very much about that, except to say it was a very difficult time and we are a family, and we will always be a family.“It was very difficult. “Many people find themselves in this situation. My whole family have all been through a difficult time.”A bitter custody battle came after Jolie filed for divorce from Pitt last September and sought full custody of their children.But the celebrity couple eventually reached an agreement in early January to seal the custody documents as they endeavor to resolve their issues and reach a divorce settlement. Jolie added:” My focus is my children, our children.“We are and forever will be a family and so that is how I am coping. “I am coping with finding a way through to make sure that this somehow makes us stronger and closer.”The couple had been together since 2004 but only married in August 2014.Jolie spoke after attending the premiere in the Angkor Wat temple complex at Siem Reap, Cambodia, for her movie, First They Killed My Father, about life in Cambodia under Pol Pot's Khmer Rouge as seen through the eyes of a child. The film is based on a book of the same name by Cambodian author Loung Ung.Ms Ung was five when she and her family were forced to leave their home in the capital, Phnom Penh, by the Khmer Rouge, the regime which ran the country between 1975 and 1979, under Pol Pot.It is estimated that about two million people, around a quarter of the population, were either murdered by the regime or died from starvation and overwork.She acknowledged that in a way she has come full circle since first traveling to Cambodia 17 years ago for Tomb Raider and where she first became a mother with the adoption of her oldest son Maddox.She went on to adopt Zahara from Ethiopia and Pax from Vietnam. She also gave birth to three biological children with Pitt - Shiloh, who was born in Namibia, and Vivienne and Knox who were born in France. Jolie has embraced a role as a humanitarian and UNICEF ambassador traveling to visit refugees and touring some of the most impoverished areas of the globe.She has often taken one or more of her children with her.Asked where she sees herself being in five years time, she replied: “I would like to be traveling around the world visiting my children, hoping that they’re just happy and doing really interesting things and I imagine in many different parts of the world and I’ll be supporting them.“Everything I do I hope ... I represent the right things to my children and give them the right sense of what they’re capable of and the world as it should be seen. “Not through the prism of Hollywood or through a certain kind of life but really take them into the world where they have a really good sense and become rounded people.” OPS: Angelina Jolie being interviewed by the BBC.Not all the interview was sad. Here she discusses her new film. Picture supplied by Ferrari, Image: 321541153, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Credit line: Profimedia, Ferrari

Zajedničko skrbništvo najbolje je rješenje za djecu, reći će većina psihologa uz, naravno, preduvjet da roditelj po svojem ponašanju nije opasan za dijete. Unatoč tomu, mnogi roditelji ne uspijevaju se dogovoriti, pa – umjesto da naprave sve u interesu djeteta – oni ta mala, nedužna bića koriste kao poligon za dokazivanje vlastite (nad)moći.

“Godinama sam bila u lošem braku i kad mi je suprug rekao da želi razvod, laknulo mi je. Iako sam i sama razmišljala o tome mjesecima, jer sam shvatila da nemamo budućnosti, bilo me je strah njegove reakcije. Bojala sam ga se. No kad je u postupku razvoda naš sin odlučio da želi živjeti s ocem, to me jednostavno dotuklo. Slatkorječivost bivšeg partnera, njegova pusta obećanja i, u konačnici, činjenica da ima novaca, doprinijeli su tome da je naš tinejdžer donio takvu odluku. Mislila sam da to neću preživjeti, no odlučila sam biti najbolja majka što mogu; truditi se da moje frustracije ne ugroze naš odnos, tako da danas, iako on službeno živi s ocem, moj sin provodi puno vremena sa mnom i mogu reći da imamo izvrstan odnos”, kaže 45-godišnja H. iz Zagreba.

Dodjeljivanje skrbništva je neka vrsta priznanja da je roditelj dobar roditelj, a nedodjeljivanje skrbništva često se doživljava kao neka vrsta osude. Borba za skrbništvo i raspored oko toga tko će kada biti s djecom, često je težak ispit za roditelje, no još je teži za djecu. Iako loš muž ne mora značiti ujedno loš otac, mnogim majkama to je teško shvatiti. Iako su se do sada djeca dodjeljivala isključivo majkama – ta se odluka gotovo podrazumijevala – u posljednje vrijeme sve je više očeva koji nakon razvoda žele skrbništvo nad djecom. U tom ratu za dijete, koje se vodi u ime ljubavi prema djetetu, dijete postaje ratni plijen i to je najgori mogući scenarij.

Kad su poznate osobe u pitanju, bitka za djecu vodi se još prljavije, jer nitko ne želi na bilo koji način ugroziti svoj imidž u javnosti. Posljednje vrijeme svjedočili smo bespoštednoj bitki glumačkog para Angeline Jolie i Brada Pitta. Slavna glumica navodno je željela u potpunosti zabraniti viđanje djece nekadašnjem suprugu, optuživši ga za zlostavljanje. Kako bi se unaprijed zaštitila od eventualnih problema i medijskog rata, Angelina je navodno Bradu još u predbračnom ugovoru ponudila oko 500 milijuna kuna kako bi se odrekao skrbništva. Iako su Marc Anthony i Jennifer Lopez, barem za javnost, zakopali ratne sjekire, i njihov razvod braka nije prošao glatko: on je, naime, traži zajedničko skrbništvo nad blizancima Maxom i Emmom, no pjevačica i glumica radije je htjela glavnu riječ dati sebi.

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24 April 2017 - Los Angeles - USA **** STRICTLY NOT AVAILABLE FOR USA *** Jennifer Lopez shows off her twins on The Ellen Show as she gushes about new romance with Alex Rodriguez. J-Lo hugged nine year-old twins Emme and Max as she brought them out to join her on the sofa while chatting to host Ellen DeGeneres. Daughter Emme sat on her lap while Max was a little more boisterous and insisted on getting inside the coffee table box that Ellen uses to play pranks on guests. "You're dressed very similarly to your mom today," Ellen told Emme, who J-Lo called her 'mini-me.' Ellen, clad in a grey suit with a blue shirt, joked to Max: "And we kind of dressed similarly." Ellen asked Emme about her texting habits, at which point Max made a peeping noise from the box, to which Ellen asked him: "Do you text?" Max responded: "Close up the box," at which point J-Lo told Ellen: "By the way, he's very bossy!" Soon, the box that Max was playing in began to unravel and Ellen joked: "I we're going to sue you! Your mom has a lot of money, we're going to sue her!" J-Lo, who appeared to promote her upcoming NBC show World of Dance, also opened up about her new romance with retired baseball Rodriguez giving details about how they met and what they did for a first date - go out for dinner. Ellen also managed to prank J-Lo by getting a guy dressed in a Yankees outfit jump out of the fake coffee table box and scare her as they were chatting., Image: 330117013, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: PLEASE CREDIT AS PER BYLINE *UK CLIENTS - PLEASE PIXELATE CHILDS FACE BEFORE PUBLICATION **UK CLIENTS MUST CALL PRIOR TO TV OR ONLINE USAGE, Model Release: no, Credit line: Profimedia, Xposurephotos

No ima i pozitivnih primjera kad je razvod slavnih u pitanju: zvijezda tinejdžerske serije Beverly Hills, plavokosa Jennie Garth, kad se nakon 11 godina braka razvela od supruga Petera Facinellija, par se u trenu, bez medijske pompe, dogovorio oko podjele skrbništva nad njihove tri kćeri.

Tekst: D. P.

Izvor: story.hr

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